Don’t give me the whole “I’m not not looking for a relationship” speech and then tell me to come out because I owe you a drink…  Sorry, maybe this isn’t the most social correct thing, but if you’re putting a halt to anything besides basic friendship, I’m not buying you shit.  I don’t buy my friends drinks, I buy dates drinks, or girls with potential.  Despite how this sounds, I’m cool with the just friends thing, because I’m not looking for a gf by any means, but do not even try to have your cake and eat it at my expense, that won’t fly.